Service Information

Service : Private Service

Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights

Shiva Information

Shiva Information

Private

Contributions
May be made to a charity of your choice

Obituary

Mildred Bender, nee Garfinkle, passed away just shy of her 94th birthday. Beloved wife of the late Philip; devoted mother of Donna Bender (Gary Palm) and Ellen (Scott) Chukerman; adored and adoring “Bubster” of Benjamin (Laura) Chukerman and William (Jennifer) Chukerman; proud great-grandmother of Lilah; caring daughter of the late Abraham and Rose Garfinkle. Mildred was born and raised on the Great West Side of Chicago. Known for her sweet nature, she faced life’s challenges with great strength, always drawing on her love for family. She treasured spending time with her grandsons and will be deeply missed. The family would like to thank JourneyCare Hospice and Warren Barr Highland Park for their care and compassion. Funeral services are private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of your choice. To leave condolences: www.shalommemorial.org, 847-255-3520.

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July 31st, 2025

Speaking a little Yiddish with Millie was a great giggle. Sending the whole family the warmest of hugs. May her memory be a beautiful blessing.

~Belle Kolman
~Friend, Highland Park

July 31st, 2025

Ellen and Donna,
Sending you peace love and light. Millie can rest easy now, you both took amazing care,. The one and only Bubster! She will be protected up there with Phil and Nate ❤️🤍
Love you,
Lynne

~Lynne Brenner
~Friend and neighbor, Northfield, Il

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