Service Information
Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights
Shiva Information
Shiva Information
Shiva is private
Contributions
In lieu of flowers and cash donations, please consider making donations to Groceryland: 5543 N. Broadway, Chicago, IL 60640 (773) 871-7610 Include that your contribution is in honor of Lori Cannon.
· Aldi Gift Cards
· Canned and Dry Goods (volume of the same item is a big help)
· Toilet Paper, Toiletries (soap/body wash, shampoo, lotion, tampax, shaving)
Turn grief into fuel, Lori wants us to keep up the fight:
· Volunteer at your local pantry
· Organize a drive for toilet paper and toiletries
· Demand dignity and healthcare for all
· Speak up when it’s uncomfortable
· Love louder
Obituary
“Lori Cannon was a true ally in Illinois from her organizing days to founding Open Hand Chicago – she led the way with chutzpah and humor” Governor JB Pritzker
“I entered Ms. Cannon’s story into the Congressional Record so every American can celebrate her life, her work, and her dedication to the LGBTQ+ community.” Congressman Mike Quigley
Lori Cannon, Chicago’s AIDS angel and a driving force behind Chicago’s response to the AIDS crisis for 40 years, died at home Sunday, August 3 of congenital heart failure after a concurrent diagnosis of pancreatic cancer. Lori was 74.
The caretaker of the universe
Lifelong Chicagoan, Lori Cannon, was born in the Ravenswood neighborhood on May 22, 1951, and grew up in West Rogers Park. Her teen years in the 60s were defined by helping her parents Bluma, a homemaker, and Lee, a film animation executive who traveled frequently to the west coast, to care for both of her brothers. Younger brother J.H. was born with blue baby syndrome, and was treated by Dr. Willis Potts, who developed what became known as the Potts shunt. was able to graduate 8th grade, but died at age 14 from complications. During this time, her older brother, Jules, was in a devastating motorcycle accident that left him with lifelong physical disabilities and traumatic brain injury. Lori’s life became centered on caregiving for her two brothers; a foreshadowing of the path that was ahead.
Already living a less than conventional schedule, when she graduated high school in 1968, it was decided by their mothers that it would be good for both Cannon and her cousin Hollis if Lori accompanied her cousin on a European tour with her college choir. After touring nine countries, Lori returned to Chicago with the Democratic Convention in full swing. Feeling compelled to be where the action was, she grabbed her father’s 16 mm Bolex camera and went down to Michigan Avenue. It was her first experience with activism, pepper spray, paddy wagons and being jailed alongside prostitutes.
Inspired by her father’s work in animation, Cannon signed up for filmmaking classes at Columbia College. She made her first documentary, “You Haven’t Seen the USA Until You Have Seen Chicago”, to support tourism. It was based on the popular jingle by Dick Marx, who was the head copywriter at Leo Burnett and a friend of her father.
During this time Lori was also introduced to her great love of blues music by way of her cousins, Leonard and Phil Chess, founders of Chess Records. Leonard’s son, Marshall, served as executive manager for the Rolling Stones, ran their record label and toured with them. So it wasn’t unusual for Cannon to spend time with the band at the studio when they were in town. This ignited her enduring passion for blues music where she was a fixture in Chicago’s legendary southside blues clubs. She developed life-long friendships with musicians like Koko Taylor and Lonnie Brooks and their families.
She landed her first job as a kindergarten teacher and moved on to pre-school. Though she found working with the kids to be rewarding, she felt adrift. She decided to visit her father Lee on the Navajo Reservation in Arizona where he now resided. As past-President of the 4th Marine Division DC1 in WWII, he chose to honor the Navajo Code Talkers – alongside whom he had served – when he was selected to host the division’s annual dinner. From that point on, he devoted his life to the Navajo and Native American rights. Lori returned to Chicago and took a job as a dispatcher for Winkle Transportation. The dispatcher job lasted one day. On her second day she took a convoy of kids from Northwestern on fieldtrips, next became the regular driver for tuba practice; and then became the go-to for all the Arie Crown Theater touring companies. She quickly became known as the “Driver to the Stars.” It was during this time that Lori was first introduced to Chicago’s gay community. School routes during the day afforded flexible time between 9a-2p; something that she didn’t know then would be invaluable in her life’s work.
Cannon stepped up in Chicago when AIDS descended on us in the mid-80s and she never left
Cannon, the company actors, friends all started hearing the stories of illness, the coughing, the spots, the swift death. She went to meetings medical professionals hosted in their homes. She became one of the earliest volunteers for Chicago House, the first local agency to provide housing for people with AIDS.
In 1987 Cannon attended the National March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights, where she also first encountered the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt. It was the beginning of a 40-year friendship with NAMES Project founder Cleve Jones. She helped launch the Chicago chapter and brought the quilt to Chicago three times from 1988-1994.
The 1988 Navy Pier quilt display was also the catalyst for the beginning of Open Hand Chicago, a meals-on-wheels program for people with AIDS/HIV modeled after San Francisco’s Project Open Hand. As a founding board member and her bus driver expertise was instrumental in developing the routes that covered home deliveries throughout the entire city. She ensured there was never a waiting list, no one ever went without. The downtime on her school routes afforded her time for caregiving.
As AIDS raged on, so did the fight. Cannon became the wing person for her best friend and comrade in arms, political cartoonist/activist Danny Sotomayor who was the co-founder and most-public face of ACT UP Chicago (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power) whose demands for better care and treatment were unwavering and relentless. During this time Lori developed relationships with those she referred to as “movers and shakers” who could donate, instigate, and make things happen. Deep friendships with playwright Scott McPherson – also Danny’s partner; classical music critic for WMFT Andrew Patner; and her beloved Jon-Henri Damski, the queer writer and thinker for whom she created an annual award to commemorate his memory.
After the advent of Protease Inhibitor “drug cocktails” in 1995, AIDS sufferers started to live longer. The need for home delivered meals to the dying shifted to groceries for the living. Lori led the charge and the “Groceryland” pantry network was born to provide clients the opportunity to choose their own groceries to prepare food at home. Groceryland was more than a pantry, it was a community hub where people in need knew they could find support that extended beyond the shopping carts. When Heartland Alliance, the parent company imploded, Groceryland survived because of Cannon.
Cannon’s legacy is one of radical care and relentless action
Lori was also a volunteer with AIDS Legal Counsel of Chicago, STOP AIDS Chicago, Howard Brown Health, AIDS Walk Chicago, and the AIDS care unit at Advocate Illinois Masonic Medical Center. In recognition of her decades of advocacy, she was inducted into the Chicago LGBT Hall of Fame in 1994 as a “Friend of the Community.” In 2010 she also cofounded the Chicago-based Legacy Project, which honors LGBTQ+ contributions to world history and culture.
Cannon inspired direct action. The stories from everyone imaginable, of doing things they had never considered before just because she asked – are legend. And no one could ask like Lori Cannon .- Her astounding memory was laser-focused; she knew the story of every single client and volunteer throughout her 40-year-tenure without ever writing anything down.
Cannon believed it was the job of the healthy to care for the sick. And she thought about the intangible – clothes, bedding that needed washing; dogs that needed walking; what the sound and sight of a human presence meant. Specialty items, treats were collected and dispensed. Regular drives for costly household goods and toiletries not covered by EBT were distributed. She reached out to hair stylists, secured and distributed numerous comps to theater productions and concerts. She was a hand up before that expression existed.
Lori Cannon was your friend, your family, your advocate, your fighter, your defender. Her wrath was not to be risked, but mostly, she inspired people to go big, time and time again. She was the Cannonball; the Totie Fields of relentless schtick; and Chicago’s undeniable AIDS Angel of Compassion and Giving – a beacon of red, from the hair done weekly without fail by her beloved Leon at Brady C’est Bon Salon, to the talon nails, the outrageous costume jewelry, the meticulously applied make-up, and the omnipresent flip flops. The perfume, the accessories. The meals at Calo and The Bagel; the confections at Taste of Heaven. Annual birthday parties for senior volunteer Harry and his team of devoted advocates; the countless celebrations she organized in everyone’s honor for every occasion and milestone.
“Lori taught me that activism isn’t just what you do, it’s who you are when no one’s watching. She didn’t wait for permission to fight for justice, she made space, fed people, and told the truth, even when it hurt. Her life was a radical act of compassion and courage.” Modesto Tico Valle, former CEO at Center On Halsted.
In lieu of flowers and cash donations, please consider making donations to Groceryland: 5543 N. Broadway, Chicago, IL 60640 (773) 871-7610 Include that your contribution is in honor of Lori Cannon. · Aldi Gift Cards · Canned and Dry Goods (volume of the same item is a big help) · Toilet Paper, Toiletries (soap/body wash, shampoo, lotion, tampax, shaving)
Turn grief into fuel, Lori wants us to keep up the fight: · Volunteer at your local pantry · Organize a drive for toilet paper and toiletries · Demand dignity and healthcare for all · Speak up when it’s uncomfortable · Love louder
A private burial and service will be held on August 20, 2025; 1 PM at Shalom Memorial Park. For a link to view the service, shiva information and to leave condolences: www.shalommemorial.org or (847) 255-3520. A community celebration of life will be held on Sunday, November 2, 2025 1 PM – 4 PM at Sidetrack, 3349. N. Halsted Street, Chicago, IL 60613. There are further plans for commemoration, a retrospective and Lori’s personal archives.
Guest Book & Memories
Share your memories and photographs below.
August 21st, 2025
I am so very sorry that I missed this service for Lori.. I didn’t know about it. Lori was a very special inspiration to me. I became aware of the pantry when my friend Jean Galan became a volunteer. .. She began bringing a lunch for the volunteers, and when I found that they would enjoy a dessert I began making one for Jean to take along with her wonderful lunches.. So eventually I met Lori and she was amazing.. and so loving to everyone.. she brought joy and soul, and celebration to everyone. She would always invite me to Thanksgiving and it was a joy to be there with her and all the marvelous volunteers. Lori’s story is one of real prophetic living, .. defending the rights of LGBTQ folks, and really everyone…and celebrating life. L’chaim and shalom with a hug… I was shocked to hear that Lori was so ill and suddenly she had passed…. Oh how we will miss her… You know, I believe in heaven, that surprise the Lord has for all of us, .. I hope to meet Lori again…and may she now, from the arms of God, be praying for all of us. Thank you Lori!!! Love, Sister Wendy
~Sister Wendy Cotter CSJ, Ph.D, Loyola , Chicago
~friend, Chicago
August 20th, 2025
At some of the most difficult times in my life, Lori was there for me, and I will always be grateful for that.
I was lucky to call her a friend, and be a part of ‘the Tuesday crew’ with some of the most wonderful, crazy and caring bunch of misfits in town.
I hope I can always draw strength to care from the lessons she taught us all.
A real example of a life lived in the service of her family, her friends, and her whole city.
May her memory be a blessing,
Gonzo
~Gonzalo Brum
~Friend/Volunteer, Chicago, IL
August 20th, 2025
In late 2012, I had been unemployed for nearly a year. I visited Groceryland for help with food. Lori welomed me in with open arms and sent me home with 2 large bags of groceries along with signing me up with the pantry for a weekly allotment of food and personal items . In November 2013 she asked me if would care to volunteer for the Thursday night shift? I said yes, I would be happy to and did so for most Thursdays evenings until March 2020 when COVID began. In Nov. 2016, during one of my shifts, a Chicago House staffer came in to promote their employment services, I signed up for it and within six months, I had a job! Lori had a photographic memory, she remembered everything, history names, everything! I owe her so much and am so greatful to have known her all these years. What a truly wonderful human being she was, I will miss her. Rest in peace Lori, with sincere love and thanks, Michael Netter
~Michael Netter
~Groceryland client and volunteer, Chicago, Illinois 60626
August 20th, 2025
I worked with Lori for 4.5 years at Vital Bridges at the time it was acquired by Heartland Alliance. It was a difficult time for all of us, but Lori was never deterred from the mission or operating Groceryland as she always had, sometimes in opposition to the new system and structure being forced upon us. Something I appreciated most about her were her stories, which were always incredible, but also sometimes so unbelievable that we weren’t sure what was true and what was embellished. I have two gems to share.
At one point in her youth, she was at Studio 54 and was living her best life with a little pharmaceutical help. She was on the dance floor and kept hearing someone say her name – Lori, Lori. She wasn’t fully aware of her surroundings and finally realized that a stage was descending above her with Laura Branigan singing Gloria.
When Paul McCartney was in town, she was invited to attend his concert with WXRT legend, Terri Hemmert. She said they came face to face with Paul, and she told him that when she saw the Beatles as a teen, she was right at the stage and his crotch was in her face.
She was larger than life in so may ways. I feel like I truly learned what it meant to be a servant leader from her. I learned about the AIDS crisis and realized that so much of who she was came from the profound loss she experienced for years. Despite being faced with horrors most people couldn’t even fathom, she maintained her sense of humor and her commitment to serving the people she loved so much. She also was completely dedicated to her family, which was something I admired about her a great deal.
I wasn’t as close to Lori as many others, but she made an impact on my life, and I’m grateful for the brief time I knew her.
~Michelle Patterson
~former colleague, Riverside, IL
August 20th, 2025
The most generous and caring person in this world. Thank you for the sunflowers and the thoughtful gifts when my mom passed away last year. Your spirit, laughter, and loved touched us all deeply. I pray we find peace and solace in the memories you shared and the legacy you leave behind.
~Resti Miranda
~Friend, Chicago, Illinois
August 20th, 2025
The moment I got to meet Lori in 1994 at the CALOR grocery setup location, I was in awe with how she orchestrated this tremendously important mission she was on. I’ve lived in many major cities and volunteered for various organization but never have I ever experienced what Lori created. I am fortunate to have had her in my life all these years. Thank you Lori.
~Jose Jimenez-Smith
~Volunteer, Chicago, IL
August 19th, 2025
Lori took me in as a friend and worked hard to make sure we had an ongoing connection. She was a supporter of Outspoken, LGBTQ + true stories. She made me feel like I belong, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
~David Fink
~Friend, Chicago, IL
August 19th, 2025
Lori Instantly became the light.
~Robert McElroy
~Friend, Kirksville,MO
August 19th, 2025
What a pleasure to have you in our life’s. Always with a smile and kind words. You will so missed! Rest in peace and give my mom (Joan) a hug.
❤️ Kathy Edens
~Kathy Edens
~Friend, Sawyer,Mi.
August 19th, 2025
She is with the all the others now. The ones she cared for, the ones she fought for, the ones she did all for. She now rests with them all as we continue in her honor , to be better, to be caring , to be fighting for rights, and fairness and beauty in the world. Her memory is a blessing to all that she touched and she will be forever in our hearts. Rest well my dear friend. Your work here is done but we will carry on as you would want us to. The attached is the last time we shared a meal, Stephen Boydstun, who was in town to grieve the loss of his husband Walter whom you were closely connected with so we shared a meal and you shared stories with me, my fiance Steve and the owner of La Crêperie, as you were always good for doing. I will miss all the stories and joy you always brought to a gathering.
~Dean Ogren
~Close Friend/Volunteer, Evanston
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