Service Information
Service Location: Shalom Chapel Service
Shalom Memorial Funeral Home
1700 West Rand Road
Arlington Heights, IL 60004
Interment:
Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights
Shiva Information
Shiva Information
Home of David Stone
435 N. Michigan Avenue
Tribune Tower – 3rd floor
Chicago, Illinois 60611
2 PM until 5 PM
Parking available in neighborhood lots
Spot Hero is recommended
Contributions
Resilience
http://www.ourresilience.org
Obituary
Carol was born on May 3rd, 1959, to Sharon and Norman Feldman in Chicago, Illinois. She attended Niles East high school in 1977, where she performed on the poms team and discovered her love of dance. After graduating, she attended Southern Illinois University, where she created a specialized major in Organizational Development.
She went on to live and work in Chicago, where she married David Stone and ensured that her daughters, Rachel and Sarah Stone, would follow whatever passion they desired. After many evenings spent watching her daughters in ballet class, Carol became a champion of the Chicago dance world; chairing events and galas for The Joffrey Ballet and loudly cheering for her favorite performers from her season ticket seats. Carol took her duties as a backstage mom just as seriously, and, once, even performed with the Joffrey Ballet company herself: appearing onstage as a background extra during a run of Romeo and Juliet.
Carol was also a proud graduate of the University of Chicago’s School of Social Service Administration, where she received a Master’s degree in Social Work. She completed this degree while balancing parenting two children in middle and high school, and embraced the opportunity to serve trauma survivors and others in uniquely challenging situations. She worked closely with Resilience, a non-profit dedicated to working with sexual assault survivors, and later took on a roster of her own clients as a therapist.
She cared deeply, laughed often, loved musicals, hated injustice (both large and small-scale), loved Shawn Colvin and James Taylor, read voraciously, built traditions, loved poetry, kept her nails done, and could always be counted on to listen.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Carol’s honor may be made to Resilience, www.ourresilience.org. Chapel service Sunday, May 3, 2026, 10:00 AM at Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, 1700 W. Rand Road, Arlington Heights. Interment following at Shalom Memorial Park. For information, including a link to view the service online, shiva, and to leave condolences, visit www.shalommemorial.org or (847) 255-3520.
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May 8th, 2026
I am so very sorry to learn this news. I met Carol at Joffrey where our daughters danced together. Carol became an immediate friend and I always enjoyed the time we spent together. Carol was kind, gracious and quick-witted. She always made our family feel welcome, both in Chicago and Michiana. My prayers are with David, Rachel, Sarah and all of the family and friends who loved Carol.
~Sarah Bardol
~Friend, Long Beach, IN
May 3rd, 2026
Carol was a a devoted mother who will be missed. May her memory be for a blessing.
~Steven Abelman
~Step brother, Denver, Colorado
May 3rd, 2026
I remember Carol as a person with an outgoing personality.
~Jeanette Abelman
~Step sister in law, Denver
May 3rd, 2026
Carol suffered much in her life, especially in her last years. She always had a strong desire to give of herself and resources to others, and she did give with open hand and heart. She was humble and knew how to honor others (golden traits that are not very common these days). She felt a connection with G-d and is now in a place where she’s even closer to Him. She will reap the rewards and merits for all the good she did in her life.
We are bereft and broken, and miss her greatly. We’ll never forget her.
May her memory be eternally blessed.
~Avrohom Feldman
~Brother, Israel
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